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Every year, on November 11, something rare happens. The world goes quiet. Cars pause. Conversations stop. Children in school gyms lower their voices. Veterans straighten their medals. And at the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month, we observe two minutes of silence. This is Remembrance Day. It isn’t a festival, a sale, or a long weekend. It is a Canadian tradition rooted in respect—for the soldiers who served, the ones who never came home, and the families who carried the weight of war long after the headlines faded. Why November 11? On November 11, 1918, the First World War finally ended. A conflict that reshaped the world, scarred nations, and cost millions of lives came to a close. The date became a symbol: peace hard-won and never forgotten. The Poppy: A Small Flower with a Tremendous Story The red poppy worn on jackets and coats is more than decoration. During the First World War, the soil of Flanders Fields was torn apart by artillery. Yet, through shattered g...
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Surviving Holiday Hosting: 7 Tips to Keep Your Sanity Intact

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Ah, the holidays—a magical time when your home transforms into a bed-and-breakfast for relatives who may or may not respect personal boundaries. Hosting family is a fine balance of holiday cheer and quiet desperation, but with these tips, you might just survive with your sanity (and your furniture) intact.

1. Channel Your Inner Event Planner

Think of hosting as running a tiny hotel—one where you’re the concierge, chef, and janitor. Plan meals, sleeping arrangements, and stockpile essentials. Pro tip: Hide the good coffee for yourself. Desperate times call for selfish measures.

2. Deck the Halls (and the Bathroom)

A festive vibe makes everything better, even Uncle Bob’s terrible jokes. String lights, light candles, and toss a wreath somewhere. And don’t forget the bathroom—nothing says “holiday spirit” like a pine-scented hand soap and a snowman towel.

3. Have a Loose Schedule (Emphasis on Loose)

Plan key events, like when you’ll serve dinner and when to politely suggest everyone goes home. But don’t overschedule—leave wiggle room for surprises, like a last-minute family debate over politics or Grandma’s impromptu pie critique.

4. Divide and Conquer Your Space

Create zones to maintain order in the chaos. A beverage station keeps everyone hydrated (or heavily caffeinated), and a kids’ corner prevents your living room from turning into a Lego minefield. Bonus: A snack table distracts hungry guests from questioning your cooking timeline.

5. Respect the Sacred Art of Avoidance

Not everyone loves 24/7 family bonding. Set up quiet spaces for anyone who needs to escape the madness—yourself included. Locking yourself in the bathroom for "an emergency" is a time-honored tradition.

6. Make Everyone Work

Hosting doesn’t mean becoming everyone’s servant. Hand out tasks like you’re Oprah: “You get to peel potatoes! You get to do dishes!” People like to feel useful, and you like to feel less like Cinderella.

7. Embrace the Chaos

Something will go wrong. The turkey might burn, your cousin might bring their “emotional support ferret,” or a toddler might pull down the tree. Roll with it, laugh about it, and pour yourself another glass of eggnog.

At the end of the day, the holidays are about love, laughter, and surviving family time with only mild PTSD. Embrace the quirks, enjoy the company, and remember—there’s always takeout if things really go sideways. Cheers to a holiday well-hosted!

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